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MAFS UK Star Amy Kenyon Seeks Therapy After Degrading Experience

Married At First Sight UK star Amy Kenyon had to have therapy after feeling 'sexually degraded' on and off camera by her husband, Luke Debono.The former wedding...

MAFS UK Star Amy Kenyon Seeks Therapy After Degrading Experience
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star Amy Kenyon had to have therapy after feeling 'sexually degraded' on and off camera by her husband, Luke Debono.

The former wedding planner, 30, has shared her experience on the television programme which was hit with rape allegations in a Panorama documentary last week.

Three women made allegations of rape and sexual misconduct against their partners on the show.

In the wake of the claims, Amy, who was on the 2024 series and then went on to star on Celebrity , said she felt 'uncomfortable' with her partner Luke and claimed he was 'very sexually explicit and constantly making derogatory jokes'. 

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Reflecting on her time on the show in a new interview, Amy told The Sun: 'I had a very, very, very difficult time on the show. And went through all that like sexual harassment publicly. I had to have therapy afterwards.

'Sexual harassment went on, and mine happened on camera. I just had to deal with it, and everybody was just laughing at it. It was making good TV, even if I did feel uncomfortable 80% of the time.'

Amy claimed things were bad from the moment she walked down the aisle and she burst into tears afterwards. 

Married At First Sight UK star Amy Kenyon had to have therapy after feeling 'sexually degraded' on and off camera by her husband, Luke Debono

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She said the jokes and sexually explicit comments started 'straight away' - despite Amy asking Luke to 'tone it down' during their Bahamas honeymoon.

Amy said: 'As soon as he saw people laughing at things he was coming out with, it just got worse and worse and worse.'

When the show aired, Luke faced backlash from viewers due to several comments he made about Amy. 

During a pottery class, he made highly explicit sexual innuendos and crude jokes while handling the clay.

He also openly discussed his sex life on camera with fellow groom Kieran, using a crude 'garage; metaphor to imply that Amy preferred not using protection. 

A horrified Amy said she had asked Luke not to share details about their sex life on camera as she wanted to watch the show with her family. She said he 'promised he wouldn't'.

Amy continued: 'Then he spoke about it to another groom, and the scene was included. And I didn’t know until like the week that they rang me and said, "just to let you know, this is going to happen. "And he was speaking about parking the car in the garage, which sounds disgusting.'

The couple made it all the way to the final vows but split in the last episode. 

The reality star believes she had a 'lucky escape' and doesn’t lay any of the blame on the broadcaster and believes they undertook all the necessary checks.

Amy thinks there should now be 24-hour surveillance in the MAFS apartments, if it were to return for any future series. 

The Daily Mail has contacted MAFS UK and Luke for comment. 

It comes after it was revealed that the new series of Married at First Sight was 'axed' by  bosses following the rape allegations. 

The dating show was set to return to screens for its eleventh series in September, but plans to air the episodes, which wrapped last month, have now reportedly been scrapped. 

Earlier all ten series of Married at First Sight UK, known as , were removed from the channel's streaming service and an external review into contributor welfare commissioned.

Channel 4 said that no final decision on the future of the series has been made, with a spokesperson adding: 'We have just announced an external review into contributor welfare on MAFS UK and we need to see what that finds before deciding what happens next.'

The former wedding planner, 30, has shared her experience on the television programme which was hit with rape allegations in a BBC Panorama documentary last week

It's been warned the series could even face a police probe. Security Minister Dan Jarvis has said he is 'extremely concerned', adding: 'I think it's highly likely that there will be a referral to the police and it will be a police matter for them to investigate.' 

Shona Manderson, the only woman of the three who is identified, alleged her partner, Bradley ejaculated inside her without her permission leaving her 'shocked' and 'confused' as 'we said we weren't doing that'.

Shona later went to get the morning after pill and was accompanied by a welfare producer. But soon after she discovered she was pregnant and made the difficult decision to have an abortion.

She says she does not know for sure whether the pregnancy was a result of the incident. Shona later informed production company CPL about it, but lawyers for the firm say she told them she did not have a problem with it. 

Around the same time, Brad was being called out on air by the show's experts for speaking to his partner in a controlling manner. The couple were later removed from the show due to concerns that their relationship was unhealthy.

In a statement to the BBC, Brad said he categorically denies 'any allegations of sexual misconduct, or that he was controlling'.

A second woman, referred to by the pseudonym Lizzie, told Panorama her on-screen husband raped her and subjected her to violent sex that often left her with bruises, despite her telling him to stop.

She described how one night: 'He tried to have sex with me. And I kept saying no, that I didn't want to do it.

'But he kept saying, "You can't say no, you're my wife". And he just did it anyway.'

Lizzie added that she was too scared to tell anyone about what was happening as: 'He said that if I told anybody what had happened, that he would get someone to throw acid at me.'

Lawyers for CPL told Panorama that Lizzie did not mention the 'can't say no' comment to its team and the 'acid' remark was mentioned as a 'passing comment', not a threat. CPL took action as soon as Lizzie said she felt unsafe, the lawyers added.

A third woman, Chloe, also described being raped by her MAFS husband, with her allegations being raised both with CPL and Channel 4 prior to them being shown to the public - but the episodes in which she featured were aired anyway.

She told the programme: 'He smirked and climbed on top of me, moved my leg… By that time, I'd really given up and I just didn't want him to be angry at me when the cameras came.

'I just lay there, and I stared out the window.'

In the wake of the claims, Amy said she felt 'uncomfortable' with her partner Luke and claimed he was 'was very sexually explicit and constantly making derogatory jokes'

It is understood that both men implicated in the allegations deny the accounts. 

Experts have warned the allegations could end the show - which sees singletons matched before meeting each other for the first time at a non-legally binding wedding ceremony - for good in the UK.

But even if it does disappear from British screens, its fate elsewhere - MAFS currently has series in almost 30 countries - is less certain. 

Government figures, womens' charities and television executives have all raised concerns about the allegations.

Culture, Media and Sport Committee chairwoman Dame Caroline Dinenage said the premise of the dating show, which sees single people 'marry' strangers who they meet for the first time on their wedding day, was 'horrifying' and that she was 'unsurprised' by the sexual assault allegations.

Speaking on BBC Radio 4 Today on Tuesday, Dame Caroline said: 'Clearly, the programme was deeply shocking.

'I guess what surprised me most was how unsurprised I was by what it revealed, given I suppose, as you say, that these are couples that get married without having met each other before, and then immediately have to assume a life as a married couple.

'They go on honeymoon, they share a bed, and in this kind of bubble of intimacy under the glare of a TV camera. In the cold light of day, it really is quite horrifying, isn't it?'

And former chief executive at Channel 4 Alex Mahon said current protocols around welfare for reality show participants should be reviewed.

Ms Mahon was asked about the documentary while appearing before MPs at the Culture, Media and Sport Committee (CMS) on Tuesday.

She told the committee: 'Obviously, I'm no longer at Channel 4 but I watched the programme last night.

'There are some very serious and concerning allegations in it. I think the right thing for them to do is to launch an investigation.

'I think, in fact, they've announced two investigations, a legal one and a duty of care protocols one, and then we should see what those investigations come up with and act on any findings.'

Lawyers for CPL told the BBC its welfare system is 'gold standard' and it acted appropriately.

Shortly before the Panorama episode aired, Channel 4 announced it had commissioned an external review into contributor welfare last month.

'In April, Channel 4 was presented with serious allegations of wrongdoing against a small number of past contributors, allegations that we understand those contributors have denied,' a statement from the broadcaster said.

'The channel is mindful of the privacy and continuing duty of care towards all contributors, and cannot comment on or disclose details of those allegations.

'Related to those allegations, Channel 4 was asked to respond to claims of failures in welfare protocols.

'Channel 4 believes that when concerns related to contributor welfare were raised through existing welfare and production protocols, prompt and appropriate action was taken, based on the information available at the time. Channel 4 strongly refutes any claim to the contrary.'

Priya Dogra, chief executive of Channel 4, said: 'I want to express my sympathy to contributors who have clearly been distressed after taking part in Married At First Sight UK. The wellbeing of our contributors is always of paramount importance.

'It would be wholly inappropriate for me to comment on what are very serious allegations made against some MAFS UK contributors.

'Those allegations – which I understand are disputed by the contributors accused – are not something that Channel 4 is in a position to adjudicate on.

'We are also mindful of our ongoing duty of care to all contributors, and the need to preserve the anonymity and privacy of all involved.

'On the claims that Channel 4 may have failed in its duty of care, I believe that when concerns about contributor welfare were raised, and based on the information available at the time, Channel 4 acted quickly, appropriately, sensitively and with wellbeing front and centre.'

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