Influencer Steph Claire Smith reveals common lie women tell partners about oral sex when they first start dating - and many agree they have done it too

Steph Claire Smith has shared an X-rated confession about her sex life with husband Josh Miller. 

Speaking on her KICPod podcast this week, the influencer said that she rarely offers her partner oral sex. 

'It's really important, the things we set out at the start of a relationship, because I honestly think that's why Josh has such a problem with my lack of b***jobs that I give him,' the 32-year-old said. 

'Because when we first started dating, I was all for b***jobs and like very descriptive with how they were gonna turn out, by the way I explained it to him,' she continued. 

Steph said that she gave Josh the impression that she really enjoyed the act due to her initial enthusiasm.  

'I set myself up, honestly for the s**t that comes up now,' Steph said. 

'Like when he really wants it. I'm like, I did this to myself. It's also fair because I really don't do it much, so it's very rare.'

She added in the comments: 'May enjoy it more if I was any good at it… also may be better at it if I did it more.'

Several fans in the comments section agreed with Steph, admitting that they had told the same lie. 

'This is a common tale,' wrote one person, while another posted, 'Howling at this one ladies!' 

Someone else wrote: 'Oh this! I couldn't agree with you more Steph!' 

One more commented: 'I love this! I was the same then after having our first child. I've lost interest in BJs. The worst thing is that my partner always refers to our videos and I just cringe now. Sorry babe, that was the old me.'

Not everyone was impressed however, with one man writing, 'It's laughable that this is laughable for women. She'll be so shocked when he cheats.

'There is no bigger issue in any marriage than if your partner doesn't put out. Ask any bloke.'