Denise Van Outens New Romance Shuns Spotlight

Denise Van Outens New Romance Shuns Spotlight

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 has revealed she's secretly dating a mystery man, but is delighted by the fact that he has 'no interest' in the spotlight. 

The TV personality, 51, was last year linked to businessman Adam Butler following her split from ex Jimmy Barba. She had previously been engaged to love rat Eddie Boxhall, but ended their relationship after discovering his infidelity. 

Denise said that unlike some of her exes, her new man, who she has not named, does not work in showbiz and won't be spotted with her on the red carpet anytime soon.  

'I've not talked about it yet, But, yes, I am dating someone. And for the first time in my life, I have made the decision to keep it private. I don't need to reveal all the details.

'Before, I always felt that when I was dating someone, I had to put it out there, but I've realised you need to keep some things to yourself'.

Denise said she regretted previously going public with some relationships due to the fact that 'when things go wrong' it was visible for the world to see. 

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Denise Van Outen has revealed she's secretly dating a mystery man, but is delighted by the fact that he has no interest in the spotlight

She told The Sun: 'I've always had partners that want to be on a red carpet and be photographed or be famous, but he doesn't want that. He's just got no interest in it. I think that's a good thing, because I've had my fingers burned'.

Denise previously admitted that she as finding potential suitors has become harder since moving to the countryside.

The presenter joined exclusive dating app Raya in 2024 and admitted at the time that without it, she wouldn't as meeting guys 'in real life' is not as easy while living in rural Kent.

She told The Sun: 'Actually, for me, dating apps are a really good thing. I don't know how else I would meet people if I wasn't doing that.'

'When I was younger, there was the option to go out, but now I live in the country, it's not like I'm able to just go to the pub,' she added. 

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'Even if I went to my local, they're all my neighbours who I know anyway, so that's of no value to me.'

The performer said being a single mother to her daughter Betsy, 15 - who she shares with ex-husband Lee Mead - makes it harder to meet new people as she can't go out at night. 

Referencing the end of her engagement to Eddie, after discovering he had been unfaithful, she previously told Fabulous magazine: 'I'm not fussed either way now.

Denise said that unlike some of her exes, her new man, who she has not named, does not work in showbiz and won't be spotted on the red carpet (pictured with ex Eddie Boxshall in 2019)

'I'm really good friends with and we were saying: ''Isn't it nice to actually just be loving life and not feel pressured to have to be in a relationship or be with someone?'' I've learned to be on my own and be content.

'This industry can feel pressurised, and then when things go wrong, it's so public. You worry that people see you as a failure.

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'I wonder if people say: ''Why can't she hold down a relationship? History keeps repeating itself'', but I'm not chasing it now.'

She added that her relationship with Eddie only got cut short because of what she discovered he had done, admitting that was the 'sad part' of the break-up.

Denise said she was 'back to square one' but was trying to keep a 'positive outlook' and 'have an open heart'.

After her devastating split from Eddie, Denise found love again with Jimmy in July 2022, but they split after 18 months together.

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She ended her relationship with the commodities trader in January 2022 after discovering unfaithful messages.

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Eddie moved out of Denise's home following their shock split and was thought to be staying with friends.

Jay Kay (1998-2001)  

Denise, who narrates The Only Way Is Essex, dated Jamiroquai lead singer Jay Kay, 52, for three years from 1998 to 2001. 

The TV personality, 47, enjoyed a highly-publicised relationship with the Jamiroquai bandmember, 52, before they 'painfully' called it quits back in 2001.

Denise even wrote about him in her new autobiography A Bit Of Me, and he claimed they called off their plans to marry due to 'conflicting' jobs at the time.

The ex files: The star, who narrates The Only Way Is Essex, dated Jamiroquai lead singer Jay Kay, 52, for three years from 1998 to 2001 (pictured in 1998)

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Nick Moran (2001)

After Jay, there was a brief rebound fling with Lock, Stock And Two Smoking Barrels actor Nick Moran. 

One onlooker observed of one of their date nights: 'They were like a pair of magnets - stuck together all night. They were kissing and cuddling like love-struck kids.' 

Yet their relationship wasn't meant to be and the two stars split up shortly after they first began dating. 

Former flame: After Jay, there was a brief rebound fling with Lock, Stock And Two Smoking Barrels actor Nick Moran

Richard Traviss (2003-2005) 

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Following this, Denise dated nightclub owner Richard Traviss from 2003 until 2005, with the couple even becoming engaged during their romance.

During their relationship the couple were hit by cheating claims when a lapdancer penned a kiss and tell claiming to have slept with Richard in 2003 - claims that he and Denise denied. 

Despite this the couple called it quits two years later but on good terms, with Denise telling ES Magazine: 'We're still talking and we're still great mates.'

Past romance: Denise dated nightclub owner Richard Traviss from 2003 until 2005, with the couple even becoming engaged during their romance (pictured in 2004)

Lee Mead (2007-2013) 

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Denise first walked down the aisle to wed her daughter Betsy's father Lee Mead, 40, however they separated four years later in 2013. 

Denise married Lee in the Seychelles in 2009, after meeting on the 2007 TV show Any Dream Will Do where she was a judge and he was a contestant. They welcomed Betsy in 2010. 

Denise confirmed they had parted ways in June 2013 - just six months after being named the runner-up on Strictly's tenth series.

Former flame: Denise first walked down the aisle to wed her daughter Betsy's father Lee, 40, in 2009, however they separated in 2013 (pictured in 2010)

Eddie Boxshall (2015-2022)  

Denise began dating commodities trader Eddie Boxshall in 2015 and while the couple were never formally engaged they had announced they planned to marry. 

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She split from Eddie in January 2022 after he was caught having phone sex with other women, with Eddie later admitting he sent up to 20 sext messages behind Denise's back. 

Eddie said he feels ashamed and 'deeply regrets' sending the messages and said he contacted his presenter ex-girlfriend many times to apologise but she did not want to reconcile their relationship. 

It's all over: Denise began dating commodities trader Eddie Boxshall in 2015 and while the couple were never formally engaged they had announced they planned to marry, splitting in 2022 (pictured in 2015)

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