Showbiz

Doja Cats Dad Accuses Mom of Brainwashing

Doja Cat's family dysfunction appears to be spilling into the public eye.Dumisani Dlamini, the father of the Grammy-winning artist, defended himself on social m...

Doja Cats Dad Accuses Mom of Brainwashing
BN

Bintano News

March 24, 2026

Advertisement

's family dysfunction appears to be spilling into the public eye.

Dumisani Dlamini, the father of the Grammy-winning artist, defended himself on social media over the weekend from allegations he wasn't an involved or caring parent to Doja Cat, placing the blame on her mother for 'brainwashing' her.

The issue began as the Say So singer, 30, was playing a show at the SunBet Arena in Pretoria, , the country where Dlamini lives. 

The performance, labeled the Global Citizen Move Afrika concert, marked the first time Doja Cat performed in the country.

In clips labeled 'The Deadbeat Chronicles,' Doja Cat said that she had been in contact with her father, and offered him a ticket, but he declined, saying she doesn't 'message him enough.'

Doja Cat said she then played a prank on her father, sending him a link to gay pornography under the guise of being a site where he could acquire tickets to her show.

The Daily Mail has reached out to representatives for Doja Cat for further comment.  

Doja Cat's family dysfunction appears to be spilling into the public eye, as she spoke about a prank she played on her father 

The Paint the Town Red vocalist said, 'I sent him gay porn, and I said, "If you go to this link, you can get a ticket" - super duper easy.'

Doja Cat, whose full name is Amala Ratna Zandile Dlamini, said that her father told her he was 'very busy doing costume and rehearsal' and unable to check the link she sent.

Advertisement

The singer said her father continued sending messages while he was at work, telling her he didn't have time to check the link she sent him.

Doja Cat onstage at the Global Citizen Move Afrika concert on March 20

The pop star detailed how she pranked her father - who didn't find the gag amusing 

Dlamini in a retort clip slammed Doja Cat's mother Deborah Sawyer for what he said was a longtime, misleading narrative about his parenting efforts to their daughter.

'That white woman brainwashed my baby, that I had left her,' Dlamini said in an Instagram post that he later deleted. 'I never left my kid.'

Dlamini vented about how his daughter - influenced by her 'white' and 'Jewish' mother Sawyer - chose to prank him instead of reconciling with him while in the area.

'She played the cards because of being influenced by her mother,' Dlamini said. 'She came to South Africa - she's got power to see me, and she faked it.'

Dlamini stressed to his social media following that he was not a deadbeat dad - but rather 'a man of integrity, respect and love.

'What I want to say to you guys is, I'm sorry if I ever touched anyone's nerves.'

Advertisement