Siân Welby shares her heartbreak over her father Ian’s dementia and fears he may forget his children

Siân Welby has given an update on her father’s health after she previously revealed he was battling vascular dementia. 

The Capital FM star, 37, previously shared that her father Ian, 84, had been diagnosed with the disease after overcoming ‘awful’ battles with cancer and Covid. 

And now Sian has admitted that is is ‘heartbreaking’ to think he might forget his own children as the disease progresses. 

Appearing on Thursday’s This Morning alongside hosts Josie Gibson and Craig Doyle, Sian shared a video of her and her dad as she candidly explained: ‘We know there is no cure and it will progressively get worse. I literally take everyday as it comes.

‘I think the devastating thing about Alzheimer’s is that it’s one of the cruelest diseases because you are losing their personality and eventually you will become strangers.’

Siân Welby, 37, has admitted the thought of her dementia-stricken father Ian, 84, forgetting his children is 'heartbreaking' as she opens up about fears they 'will become strangers'

Siân Welby, 37, has admitted the thought of her dementia-stricken father Ian, 84, forgetting his children is ‘heartbreaking’ as she opens up about fears they ‘will become strangers’

The Capital FM star, 37, previously shared that her father Ian, 84, had been diagnosed with vascular dementia after overcoming 'awful' battles with cancer and Covid

The Capital FM star, 37, previously shared that her father Ian, 84, had been diagnosed with vascular dementia after overcoming ‘awful’ battles with cancer and Covid

Discussing her dad’s condition, she continued: ‘He relies on others a lot more and not only did this mean he lost his independence but he lost his identity.’

Talking about the disease she admitted: ‘It does creep on you, he would go the shed and forget why he went and it gets worse and sometimes he forgets completely why he is there.’

‘He needed to feel like a dad again. He at one point lost his role as dad because we were doing everything. He couldn’t drive, couldn’t make dinner or do the shopping or fix the car or do anything he normally did.’

‘The thought of someone like your own dad not knowing who you are and that you might walk into a room and he’ll say “Do I know you?” is so possible, that it’s heartbreaking’. 

‘I am trying not to miss my old dad but embrace this new dad that I have to be a bit more patient with and make him feel like he still can be my dad.’

She added: ‘It is a confusing experience, because sometimes you can almost forget he has it, and other times it is so obvious.’

Siân previously explained Ian ‘no longer has any short-term memory’ in a new interview with OK! earlier this month. 

The star revealed that Ian struggles to remember daily occurrences, but added she’s ‘lucky’ that he still recognises her.

Appearing on Thursday's This Morning, Sian shared a video of her and her dad as she candidly explained: 'I think the devastating thing about Alzheimer's is that it's one of the cruelest diseases because you are losing their personality and eventually you will become strangers'

 Appearing on Thursday’s This Morning, Sian shared a video of her and her dad as she candidly explained: ‘I think the devastating thing about Alzheimer’s is that it’s one of the cruelest diseases because you are losing their personality and eventually you will become strangers’

She added: 'I am trying not to miss my old dad but embrace this new dad that I have to be a bit more patient with and make him feel like he still can be my dad'

She added: ‘I am trying not to miss my old dad but embrace this new dad that I have to be a bit more patient with and make him feel like he still can be my dad’

Sian joined hosts Josie Gibson and Craig Doyle as well as Consultant Neurologist Dr Catherine Mummery as Craig also confessed he lost his dad to dementia three years ago

Sian joined hosts Josie Gibson and Craig Doyle as well as Consultant Neurologist Dr Catherine Mummery as Craig also confessed he lost his dad to dementia three years ago

She added that she still hopes Ian will walk her down the aisle when she marries radio producer Jake Beckett next year.

She said: ‘If someone calls, he puts the phone down and can’t remember who it was. If mum pops out to the shops, he can’t remember when she left – or when she’s coming back.’

Sian added that during Ian’s battles with cancer and Covid, his weight plummeted to six stone, and his family feared he may need to move into a care home.

Because of Ian’s ill health, Sian said that getting married abroad would be impossible, with several members of her family unable to travel.

She also shared her dad’s pride watching her hosting debut on This Morning last month, which was praised by viewers.

She said: ‘At one point, we were told he might never get out of bed again – he’s since been on a ride-on lawnmower and done the garden!’

Asked whether Ian will be able to walk her down the aisle, she said: ‘That would be the dream… That’s what made me cry when Jake and I got engaged, I think. I was thinking, maybe dad will actually be involved. Maybe, he’ll actually see me get married.’

During her This Morning hosting stint last month, Sian confirmed her father is battling vascular dementia while hosting a segment on the degenerative condition.

Sian, who has been praised for ‘bringing fun back’ to the beleaguered ITV flagship, was on hand to discuss a revolutionary new blood test that can detect Alzheimer’s disease during its initial stages. 

The presenter admitted Ian is one of more than 900,000 people currently living with dementia across the United Kingdom. 

WHAT IS DEMENTIA?

Dementia is an umbrella term used to describe a range of neurological disorders

Dementia is an umbrella term used to describe a range of neurological disorders

A GLOBAL CONCERN 

Dementia is an umbrella term used to describe a range of progressive neurological disorders (those affecting the brain) which impact memory, thinking and behaviour. 

There are many types of dementia, of which Alzheimer’s disease is the most common.

Some people may have a combination of different types of dementia.

Regardless of which type is diagnosed, each person will experience dementia in their own unique way.

Dementia is a global concern but it is most often seen in wealthier countries, where people are likely to live into very old age.

HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE AFFECTED?

The Alzheimer’s Society reports there are more than 900,000 people living with dementia in the UK today. This is projected to rise to 1.6 million by 2040.

Alzheimer’s disease is the most common type of dementia, affecting between 50 and 75 per cent of those diagnosed.

In the US, it’s estimated there are 5.5 million Alzheimer’s sufferers. A similar percentage rise is expected in the coming years.

As a person’s age increases, so does the risk of them developing dementia.

Rates of diagnosis are improving but many people with dementia are thought to still be undiagnosed.

IS THERE A CURE?

Currently there is no cure for dementia.

But new drugs can slow down its progression and the earlier it is spotted, the more effective treatments can be.

Source: Alzheimer’s Society 

 

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