Selena Gomez: Best Friends with Taylor Swift After Jonas Brothers Breakup

Selena Gomez said that a break-up with one of the Jonas Brothers made her best friends with Taylor Swift as she reflected on their longtime friendship and even revealed the ‘incredible’ song she heard before anyone else.

Gomez, 33, gushed about the singer, 35, as she discussed how the genesis of their relationship came through their famous ex-boyfriends when they were teenagers over a decade ago.

While making an appearance on Wednesday’s podcast episode of Therapuss with Jake Shane, she also recalled how Swift once played her ‘one of the most beautiful songs ever’ before releasing the track and going on to win multiple awards.

On the podcast, the former Disney star recalled when she dated Nick Jonas, 32, during the same time Swift was dating Nick’s older brother Joe Jonas, 35.

‘It was cute,’ she began. ‘We were young. We all know and love each other now and it’s so cute.

‘We don’t know what we were doing. She and I like to say the best thing we got out of those relationships was each other because it was really sweet’.

Selena Gomez said that a break-up with one of the Jonas Brothers made her best friends with Taylor Swift as she reflected on their longtime friendship and even revealed the 'incredible' song she heard before anyone else; seen in 2024

Selena Gomez said that a break-up with one of the Jonas Brothers made her best friends with Taylor Swift as she reflected on their longtime friendship and even revealed the ‘incredible’ song she heard before anyone else; seen in 2024 

Gomez, 33, gushed about the singer, 35, as she reflected on how they became friends through their famous ex-boyfriends when they were teenagers over a decade ago; seen in 2008

Gomez, 33, gushed about the singer, 35, as she reflected on how they became friends through their famous ex-boyfriends when they were teenagers over a decade ago; seen in 2008 

Gomez continued: ‘I was about 15 she was about 18 and that’s when it was the crazy curly Taylor and she had all these bracelets that went all the way up,’ she recalled. 

‘I believe Love Story was the first song she had ever played me and it wasn’t released yet,’ she said about Swift’s 2008 country pop hit Love Story, which went on to receive eight awards from 13 nominations.

‘Yeah, I was in a hotel room and I remember it vividly, it was just one of those songs I instantly heard and thought this is one of the most beautiful songs ever,’ Gomez gushed about the singer-songwriter. 

She said that after their respective breakups with the two members of the Jonas Brothers they were dating, they became close friends.

‘So, at that age we became best friends, bonded over the breakup,’ the Only Murders in the Building star continued. 

‘As girls do, and then we, I don’t know and then we just stuck around for all the ups and downs that came after and here we are now 16 years later’.

‘Wow, I can’t believe you heard Love Story before it was released,’ the podcast host Jake Shane chimed in, to which Gomez responded, ‘I know it was so sweet.

‘She was like, “OK, I just want to play you this song, but just like, you know, I don’t know. It’s going to be the first single, I think, I think”‘.

She shared the story while making an appearance on Wednesday's podcast episode of Therapuss with Jake Shane

She shared the story while making an appearance on Wednesday’s podcast episode of Therapuss with Jake Shane

She recalled how Swift once played her 'one of the most beautiful songs ever' before releasing the track and going on to win multiple awards

She recalled how Swift once played her ‘one of the most beautiful songs ever’ before releasing the track and going on to win multiple awards

'I believe Love Story was the first song she had ever played me and it wasn't released yet,' she said about Swift's 2008 country pop hit Love Story

‘I believe Love Story was the first song she had ever played me and it wasn’t released yet,’ she said about Swift’s 2008 country pop hit Love Story

'Yeah, I was in a hotel room and I remember it vividly, it was just one of those songs I instantly heard and thought this is one of the most beautiful songs ever,' Gomez gushed about the singer-songwriter

‘Yeah, I was in a hotel room and I remember it vividly, it was just one of those songs I instantly heard and thought this is one of the most beautiful songs ever,’ Gomez gushed about the singer-songwriter

Gomez said she was in awe ‘just hearing her say those little thoughts and just listening to it.’

She added about her longtime friend: ‘Yeah, she is a chameleon. She’s incredible.’

On the same day as the podcast episode’s release, the actress also revealed she had traveled to New York City and got a new tattoo there.

In an Instagram Story post, the singer showed off a dainty ‘Rare’ inkling, written in cursive, on the right side of her neck.

Gomez released her makeup brand, Rare Beauty, inspired by her same-name album Rare, which she dropped earlier that same year.

Rare, her third studio album, is considered her most personal and one of her most critically acclaimed works in her discography. 

Her beauty brand has received numerous awards within the beauty industry and is one of the top-ranked, highest-selling celebrity beauty brands of all time. 

Late last month, Gomez celebrated her 33rd birthday with an early, disco-themed party with her best friend in attendance and her soon-to-be husband.

Gomez said she was in awe 'just hearing her say those little thoughts and just listening to it'; seen in January 2025

Gomez said she was in awe ‘just hearing her say those little thoughts and just listening to it’; seen in January 2025

She said Swift played her the song around the time they were dating two of the Jonas Brothers. Gomez dated Nick Jonas (left) on and off for two years from 2008 to 2010 while Swift dated Joe Jonas (center) for four months; (L-R) Nick, Joe and Kevin Jonas seen in 2008

She said Swift played her the song around the time they were dating two of the Jonas Brothers. Gomez dated Nick Jonas (left) on and off for two years from 2008 to 2010 while Swift dated Joe Jonas (center) for four months; (L-R) Nick, Joe and Kevin Jonas seen in 2008

Gomez said that after their respective breakups with the two of the Jonas Brothers they were dating, her and Swift became close friends; Swift seen with Joe in 2008

Gomez said that after their respective breakups with the two of the Jonas Brothers they were dating, her and Swift became close friends; Swift seen with Joe in 2008

Her longtime best friend was right by her side as she rang in another trip around the sun with her closest pals. 

In photos uploaded to Gomez’s Instagram, the stars were pictured sitting in what appeared to be a ball pit as the birthday girl playfully reached toward the camera. 

Dressed in a sequined silver jumpsuit, the singer and actress looked radiant as she posed with Swift, who sported her signature red lip and a black minidress. 

Although the Sunset Blvd hitmaker did not disclose any party details, the gathering appeared to have a 70s disco theme and be held at the historic Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel. 

In an early birthday celebration — her actual birthday lands later this week — Gomez shared a glowing Instagram post reflecting on what she called ‘the most beautiful year of my life.’ 

‘As I prepare to celebrate my 33rd birthday, I can’t help but reflect on the incredible journey that has brought me here,’ Gomez wrote in her caption. ‘This past year has truly been the most beautiful year of my life, and I owe so much of that to all of you.’ 

Swift recently helped Gomez celebrate her 33rd birthday with a glamorous disco-themed party

Swift recently helped Gomez celebrate her 33rd birthday with a glamorous disco-themed party

On the same day as the podcast episode's release, the actress also revealed she had traveled to New York City and got a new tattoo there. In an Instagram Story post, the singer showed off a dainty 'Rare' inkling, written in cursive, on the right side of her neck

On the same day as the podcast episode’s release, the actress also revealed she had traveled to New York City and got a new tattoo there. In an Instagram Story post, the singer showed off a dainty ‘Rare’ inkling, written in cursive, on the right side of her neck

Gomez continued, thanking her followers for their support through ‘highs and lows’ and promising to carry that love into her next chapter.

The Cruel Summer hitmaker wasn’t the only VIP in the room — Gomez’s fiancé, music producer Benny Blanco, was also in attendance. 

The couple shared sweet moments throughout the night, including a passionate kiss caught on camera that had fans swooning. 

Fellow singer and former Disney star Sofia Carson, 32, was also in attendance to help Gomez ring in her birthday with her loved ones. 

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