Ore Oduba’s ex-wife Portia Jett has taken a bold swipe at the star over co-parenting, in the wake of his revelation about suffering from porn addiction.
The TV researcher re-shared an Instagram meme from co-parenting coach Chantal Contorines’ Instagram, which featured the words; ‘Them: How has co-parenting been lately?’ alongside a video of a John Cleese smashing his head into a wall.
An accompanying a caption including the words: ‘You can’t co-parent with a person who wants to control you and hurt you… You can’t co-parent with a person who hates you more than they “love” (and don’t have a capacity for love) their children.’
Her re-share of the post came in the wake of his appearance on Paul Brunson’s We Need To Talk podcast – on which he revealed he battled porn addiction since the age of nine – and stated the addiction ‘destroyed his life from the inside out’.
Prior to the post about co-parenting, Portia also shared an image showing her and Ore’s kids Roman, seven, and Genie, four, alongside Taylor Swift’s track Father Figure, which included words about ‘protecting her family’.
Ore Oduba’s ex-wife Portia Jett has taken a bold swipe at the star over co-parenting on Instagram, in the wake of his revelation about suffering from porn addiction (pictured together in 2016)
The TV researcher re-shared a meme from co-parenting coach Chantal Contorines’ Instagram, which featured the words; ‘Them: How has co-parenting been lately’ alongside a video of a John Cleese smashing his head into a wall
On the podcast, Strictly star Ore, 39, revealed he has battled a porn addiction since the age of nine, which has ‘destroyed his life from the inside out’. He stated that it was only 18 months ago that he ‘escaped my addiction’
Portia and Ore met when they were both at university, and they announced the end of their nine year marriage in October last year. Ore confirmed the couple are now divorced during his appearance on Paul’s podcast.
Jaws will no doubt drop at the post shared by Portia on Tuesday, with the playful video placed alongside a caption reading: ‘Can you relate?…
‘You can’t ever co-parent with a person who hates you more than they “love” (and they don’t have a capacity for love) their children…
‘Or a person who is incapable of compromise, compassion, empathy, respect, and putting others needs before their own- even their own children’s needs. You can’t communicate with this person…
‘There is zero resolution. You can’t genuinely, openly talk about how your children are doing and what you both need to do to meet their needs…
‘You can’t be honest and open with this person as anything you say can and will be used against you. Maybe not now, but at some point it absolutely will…
‘You can’t co-parent with a person who wants to control you and hurt you, and who is not ever able to get past this need for power and control over you…
Portia and Ore met when they were both at university, and they announced the hend of their nine year marriage in October last year. Ore confirmed the couple are now divorced during his appearance on Paul’s podcast
Jaws will no doubt drop at the post shared by Portia on Tuesday, with the playful video placed alongside a caption reading: ‘Can you relate?’
‘You can’t reason with a person who is unreasonable and irrational and truly doesn’t care about how their actions, or lack thereof, affect their children…
‘A person who truly doesn’t care about their children’s best interests, but only sees them as a constant steady source of narcissistic supply and an easy weapon to hurt you…
‘A person who has waged war against you and is hellbent on winning this war, ofttimes using the children as little soldiers to conquer you. This is not co-parenting…
‘It’s active and intentional counter parenting designed to exhaust you on every level- financially, mentally, psychologically, emotionally, physically and spiritually, while isolating you from any and all sources of support.’
Daily Mail has contacted representatives for Ore and Portia for comment.
Ore revealed on the podcast he had been in the throes of the addiction since the age of nine, meaning he suffered throughout his marriage to Portia.
On the podcast, Strictly star Ore, 39, revealed the addiction has ‘destroyed his life from the inside out’. He stated that it was only 18 months ago that he ‘escaped my addiction’.
Prior to the post about co-parenting, Portia also shared an image showing her and Ore’s kids Roman, seven, and Genie, four, alongside Taylor Swift’s track Father Figure, which included words about ‘protecting her family’
The father of two said he wanted to speak out now to highlight the issue of children seeing sexual imagery on social media
‘Shame kept me silent for 30 years. It took me 30 years, two deaths, and a divorce to finally go: here’s what’s happening,’ he revealed.
The father of two said he wanted to speak out now to highlight the issue of children seeing sexual imagery on social media.
An emotional Ore said: ‘This is me putting my life as it is on the line, to save my children and to guide anybody else’s children going into a world where at their fingertips, they can fall into something they never asked to.’
He added: ‘Part of me is terrified, the vast majority is terrified because I feel like, personally, for me, the rest of my life begins the day after this, as it’s a kind of a seminal draw-the-line moment.’
Ore said that he was first shown adult content by a friend’s older brother, explaining: ‘I remember being very intrigued and a feeling of eyes being opened. Whilst I wouldn’t say addiction set in immediately, the intrigue started immediately…
Ore shot to huge fame when he landed a spot on the 2016 series of Strictly Come Dancing, winning the show with Joanne Clifton
‘And it didn’t take long relatively speaking, for that intrigue to start running my mind over because at nine, at that age, you haven’t necessarily got full access…
‘Wanting to find a way to address that intrigue, wanting to find ways of that awakening, wanting to replicate it or find it whether it was on television or in magazines…
‘This is the problem with this form of addiction that even I could understand at 10. It’s so shameful. We can’t talk about it because there is a perceived nature to it that is everything that we hate, everything that we despise.’
