Pamela Anderson claimed she feels the wife of her ex Tommy Lee has been a catalyst in their estrangement – 28 years after their divorce and tumultuous romance.
The 58-year-old Baywatch alum – who went back to her signature blonde locks at the 2026 Golden Globe Awards – got candid about the topic during an appearance on SiriusXM’s Radio Andy show.
Anderson was married to the Motley Crue drummer from 1995 until their divorce three years later. The pair welcomed two children during their marriage: Brandon, 29, and Dylan, 28.
Back in 2019, Lee tied the knot with Brittany Furlan – who has been embroiled in her own drama as she fights for a restraining order against ‘obsessed’ singer Ronnie Radke.
At one point, host Andy Cohen question, ‘Do you think if he were not with this person, you might have a better communication?’
She replied, ‘Oh, boy. We’re going to be in big trouble.’ But then after a brief pause, she quickly added, ‘I do.’
A rep for Furlan declined to comment and the Daily Mail also reached out to Lee’s representative, but did not immediately hear back.
Pamela Anderson, 58, claimed she feels the wife of her ex Tommy Lee has been a catalyst in their estrangement – 28 years after their divorce and tumultuous romance seen on Wednesday during an appearance on SiriusXM’s Radio Andy
Anderson was married to the Motley Crue drummer from 1995 until their divorce three years later. The pair welcomed two children during their marriage: Brandon, 29, and Dylan, 28; the pair seen in 1995
The star expressed that she feels Lee is a ‘romantic’ and also ‘very dedicated to his wife.’
‘And I think that he just doesn’t want to cause any waves or maybe, I don’t know, but I don’t like it.’
Anderson admitted to Cohen that she wished both she and her ex-husband ‘had a better relationship.’
‘I haven’t spoken to him in a long time. I miss him, and just with the kids getting married and having grandkids, we’re always going to be connected in some way.’
Anderson then shared that she may possibly reunite with Lee later this year in June when their son ties the knot.
‘I haven’t talked to him, but my son, Dylan, is getting married soon, so I’ll see them at the wedding. Or him at the wedding. We don’t know, I don’t know,’ she told Cohen.
Anderson added that her sons both have a positive relationship with their father and also see him in person.
‘I always ask about him. I tried to send him pickles. I try to stay in contact,’ the actress further explained. ‘My kids just said, “Mom, just” – you know, I don’t know what it is.
‘I have to stay out of it and I shouldn’t really be saying anything, but I do wish them the best,’ she added, referencing to Lee and Furlan (seen above)
‘And I think that he just doesn’t want to cause any waves or maybe, I don’t know, but I don’t like it,’ the star said
‘I have to stay out of it and I shouldn’t really be saying anything, but I do wish them the best,’ she added, referencing to Lee and Furlan.
The couple were embroiled in split speculation last year, which the musician publicly denied.
Anderson and Lee tied the knot in 1995 during a beach wedding in Cancun after knowing each other for only four days.
The blonde bombshell had worn a bikini while the musician donned shorts as they exchanged vows.
That same year, the former couple made a sex tape during a 1995 vacation to Lake Mead – which was notably stolen and leaked.
‘It ruined lives, starting with our relationship – and it’s unforgivable that people, still to this day, think they can profit from such a terrible experience, let alone a crime,’ Anderson penned in her 2023 memoir Love, Pamela.
Their relationship became rocky afterwards and she accused Lee of physically attacking her while she was holding their son Dylan when he was a baby.
The drummer reportedly spent six months in jail for ‘felony spousal abuse.’
In her book, however, the actress revealed that Lee has been the only man that she has been in love with.
‘I haven’t spoken to him in a long time. I miss him, and just with the kids getting married and having grandkids, we’re always going to be connected in some way,’ Anderson said; seen with sons Brandon and Dylan in 2023 in NYC
In her book, however, the actress revealed that Lee has been the only man that she has been in love with; former couple seen in 1995 in L.A.
‘My relationship with Tommy may have been the only time I was ever truly in love,’ the star had written.
One year earlier during a conversation with Cohen, Anderson said that she wished both she and Lee had a ‘better’ relationship.
‘I mean, we used to talk a lot more. Not recently, unfortunately, but you know, I wish we did have a better rapport right now.’
The former Playboy model continued at the time, ‘It’ll be okay, eventually. It’s just kind of a moment right now.’
Last year in May, it was revealed whether Anderson would want to rekindle a romance with Lee after his wife said at the time that they were going through a ‘tough’ patch in their relationship.
A source told TMZ that the actress has ‘zero interest in revisiting the past.’
Last year in May, it was revealed whether Anderson would want to rekindle a romance with Lee after his wife said at the time that they were going through a ‘tough time’ in their relationship; seen earlier this month in Beverly Hills
Anderson – who has been married five times – was most recently linked to actor Liam Neeson after they met on set of the 2025 film The Naked Gun.
A separate insider told Daily Mail that the two stars had been dating ‘for a while’ but she confirmed last month that they were no longer together.
On the topic of whether Anderson and Neeson cozying up during the press tour was just a ‘publicity stunt,’ Cohen said he felt that the ‘vibes were real’ between them – which the actress agreed with.
‘You know, you fall in love in love stories, in movies. You just do. And he’s such an amazing guy. But, you know, it takes two to tango,’ she added.
Anderson – who has been married five times – was most recently linked to actor Liam Neeson after they met on set of the 2025 film The Naked Gun
‘You know, you fall in love in love stories, in movies. You just do. And he’s such an amazing guy. But, you know, it takes two to tango,’ she added; seen in 2025 in NYC
Cohen said he heard that both she and Neeson had spent time together after the conclusion of filming the movie and the actress replied, ‘Blowing off steam?’
The host continued, ‘Right. Blowing off steam, sniffing around each other as one might say…’
Anderson then called the actor both ‘wonderful’ and ‘supportive.’
‘I’ve never had that, so it’s nice. I feel like it’s a healthy relationship. It’s a friendship. It’s a loving friendship, which is really nice. I really admire him.’
