Big Brother’s Matty divided viewer opinion as he told fellow housemate Olivia she needed to change her perspective on open relationships during Sunday’s episode.
The doctor, 24, spoke positively about sexually non-monogamous marriages or relationships in which both parties are happy with their partner sleeping with other people.
Matty, who described himself as a ‘hippy’ who likes to ‘live free’ before entering the house last week, suggested Olivia should open her mind towards open relationships despite her not being able to imagine herself in such a situation.
Matty told Olivia: ‘The way that you’re looking at it is as if an open relationship is to prevent cheating so that no one gets hurt but if you switch your perspective, an open relationship gives you the freedom to pursue other people instead of the preventative of cheating.’
When Olivia asked how he learned his approach to open relationships, Matty responded: ‘Oh, Olivia, it’s not easy to learn! It’s rewiring your brain and rewiring everything you’ve been taught as a child.’
Speaking from experience: Big Brother’s Matty divided viewer opinion as he told fellow housemate Olivia to change her perspective on open relationships during Sunday’s episode
New perspective: Matty suggested Olivia should open her mind towards open relationships despite her not being able to imagine herself in such a situation
Olivia said: ‘It’s baffling me! How do you learn that?’
She continued: ‘Do you know what else I find crazy? Is how openly and how freely you can talk about it. It’s amazing to me.’
Matty told her: ‘For me, because it’s so normal, there’s no taboo. But maybe for people who have never heard of it before there can be a taboo around that subject.’
When asked by Olivia if his mother knew about his open relationships, Matty said of his mum and his partner’s parents: ‘Yeah, my mum knows, his parents know. They just say “do whatever you want that makes you happy”.’
Olivia said: ‘That is so forward thinking,’ to which Matty replied: ‘Yeah, it is. I’m very lucky. I’ve got a very progressive family.’
Speaking about his relationship, he said: ‘At the core of our relationship we just want each other to be happy.’
The moment divided viewer opinion, with many show fans taking to Twitter to express their thoughts on the conversation.
One person wrote: ‘No more open relationship propaganda please.’
Baffled: When Olivia asked how he learned his approach to open relationships, Matty responded: ‘Oh, Olivia, it’s not easy to learn! It’s rewiring your brain’
Someone else asked: ‘Why is it that people in open relationships feel the need to always mention it like it is a personality trait.’
While someone else posted: ‘So what ITV thinks we find entertaining is learning that 2 of them are in open relationships? Erm no thanks.’
Another viewer wrote: ‘Matty is in an open relationship? I’ve never understood this idea each to their own but it’s not for me! If you are in the right relationship the idea of cheating is not in a thing!’
And someone else remarked: ‘Never been keen on open relationships and Matty’s explanation still wouldn’t convince me.’
‘I was really trying to like Matty but I’m finding it even harder to like Matty now even more after he was talking about open relationships,’ confessed another show fan.
While someone else wrote: ‘Matty is someone I really relate to. He is someone I would go out on a night out with. He’s someone I would definitely hang with. As someone who is also open in relationships, it’s so refreshing to relate to someone on reality show.’
Thoughts: The moment divided viewer opinion, with many show fans taking to Twitter to express their thoughts on the conversation
Impressed with Matty’s views, another viewer shared: ‘Matty chatting about ENM is giving me life. “You have rewire everything you were taught as a child about relationships” Yes, yes and yes.’
Someone else wrote: ‘Good to hear Matty talking about open relationships in an intelligent way. Had both open and closed in the past and it feels like it’s still weirdly stigmatised despite the fact it should be of no interest to anyone other than those involved.’
And another viewer posted: ‘Open relationships are healthy,’ while someone else shared: ‘Open relationships are just childish.’
Big Brother continues on Monday at 9pm on ITV2 and ITVX.
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JENKIN
AGE: 25
PROFESSION: Barman
FROM: Bridgend
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TOM
AGE: 21
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TRISH
AGE: 33
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JORDAN
AGE: 25
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DYLAN
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NOKY
AGE: 26
PROFESSION: Banker
FROM: Derby
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PAUL
AGE: 23
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OLIVIA
AGE: 23
PROFESSION: Dancer
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HALLIE
AGE: 18
PROFESSION: Youth worker
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WHAT ARE YOU MOST LIKELY TO GET NOMINATED FOR? ‘Being lazy and having an opinion. I’m quite opinionated, I like speaking my mind and not many people like that. I’m quite real.’
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CHANELLE
AGE: 29
PROFESSION: Dental therapist
FROM: Llanelli
WHAT ARE YOU MOST LIKELY TO BE NOMINATED FOR? ‘Probably just for being annoying. In Wales, we have this saying, “I’ll do it now in a minute.” So like, if I went to make food and I left a dish on the side, I have all good intentions of washing it but I’d be like, “I’ll do it now in a minute,” and it might be three hours later before I do it. So probably for silly stuff like that.’
ZAK
AGE: 28
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MATTY
AGE: 24
PROFESSION: Doctor
FROM: Isle Of Man
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AGE: 25
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FROM: Cotswolds
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PROFESSION: NHS manager
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