Jennifer Lopez won’t be using a dating app to find her next love interest.
The 56-year-old Kiss of the Spider Woman star says when it comes to romance she’s ‘old-fashioned.’
‘You would never go on [the exclusive dating app] Raya, would you?’ asked Howard Stern during her Wednesday visit on his SiriusXM show, to which Lopez replied, ‘No, I don’t want that.’
‘I don’t know. I’m just old-fashioned, I guess,’ she added.
Her roster of failed relationships most recently includes her divorce from Ben Affleck, who has been exposed as a Raya user.
Reflecting on the doomed romances, she said, ‘What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable; it’s that they’re not capable.’
Jennifer Lopez won’t go on the dating app RAYA, which her ex-husband Ben Affleck has done in the past
Lopez made the comment on the Howard Stern Show on Wednesday
The Bronx native explained, ‘They don’t have it in them. They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They need to love them.’
She noted, however, that her exes gave as much as they could: ‘They gave me what they had. They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want. The houses, the rings, the marriages. All of it. But…’
Howard interjected: ‘They didn’t love you.’
Lopez agreed, ‘They didn’t,’ before admitting, ‘And I didn’t love myself.’
In the future, she said she wants to keep her romantic relationships ‘more quiet.’
She revealed, ‘I think I’ve made mistakes in the sense that I live my life very out loud, even though I was in the public eye.’
The mother-of-two elaborated, ‘I wanted to share my life with someone. I want someone to be there when I’m having my big important moments on the red carpet. I want someone to be there when I’m doing whatever, or when we’re going to the store. Whatever it is, I wanted to share that.
‘So I didn’t hide from it, and I spoke about it. And I think now, after what’s happened in the past few years to me and my children, I just feel like I want to keep that part so much more quiet in my life.’
In addition to tying the knot with Affleck in 2022, she was previously married to Ojani Noa, 51, Cris Judd, 56, and 57-year-old Marc Anthony, with whom she shares 17-year-old twins Emme and Max.
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‘You would never go on [the exclusive dating app] Raya, would you?’ asked Howard Stern during her Wednesday visit on his SiriusXM show, to which Lopez replied, ‘No, I don’t want that’
In addition to tying the knot with Affleck in 2022, JLo was previously married to Ojani Noa, 51, Cris Judd, 56, and 57-year-old Marc Anthony, with whom she shares 17-year-old twins Emme and Max
The lifelong entertainer filed for divorce from Affleck on their two-year wedding anniversary in August 2024.
The divorce was finalized this past January and the pair remain amicable.
They recently put on a cozy display at the New York City premiere of JLo’s movie-musical Kiss of the Spider Woman, which they co-produced together.
Weeks ago Lopez expressed gratitude for her ex-husband Affleck’s hand in bringing the film to life.
‘The movie wouldn’t have been made if it [weren’t] for him and Artists Equity…I will always give him that credit,’ she revealed on CBS Sunday Morning in September.
She explained, ‘They financed it. I told him this was the role I was born to play and I wanted to do it, and he was like, “Okay,” and he helped make it happen.’
