Dani Dyer Shares Heartbreaking Miscarriage Before Welcoming Son Santi

Dani Dyer Shares Heartbreaking Miscarriage Before Welcoming Son Santi

Dani Dyer has revealed she suffered a devastating miscarriage before falling pregnant with her son Santi. 

The Love Island star, 29, who found fame on the show in 2018 alongside then-boyfriend Jack Fincham, opened up about the miscarriage to Jamie Laing on his Great Company podcast.

After winning the ITV show and splitting from Jack, Dani got together with Sammy Kimmence, who she had dated before her TV appearance. 

Dani welcomed son Santiago, now four, in January 2021 and split from Sammy in July that year after he was sentenced to three years in jail for a £34,000 scam.

Revealing that she had a miscarriage before having Santi, she shared: ‘Just before Santi, I got pregnant, and then that didn’t work out. Because it didn’t work out, I wanted a baby, so I wasn’t careful. 

‘I was like I’m having a baby, and my mum and dad were fuming at the time. So I was nervous to tell my mum, and they were happy with me for the baby, because they knew what I went through.

Dani Dyer has revealed she suffered a devastating miscarriage before falling pregnant with her son Santi

Dani Dyer has revealed she suffered a devastating miscarriage before falling pregnant with her son Santi

The Love Island star, 29, welcomed son Santiago, now four, in January 2021 with ex Sammy Kimmence

The Love Island star, 29, welcomed son Santiago, now four, in January 2021 with ex Sammy Kimmence

‘So they were happy for me for that, but they knew that relationship was never going to work. I’ve said sorry to them so many times for what I’ve put them through. And I get what they were saying now. 

‘Yeah, it was a miscarriage, but it was very early. When I got pregnant again, I had so many scans, I was there all the time.’  

Dani has been in a relationship with Jarrod Bowen since 2021, and they have twin daughters Summer and Star together.

She married the West Ham United captain in an outdoor ceremony at the £500-a-night Langley Hotel in Iver, Buckinghamshire, on May 31.

It comes after Dani had to withdraw from the BBC show just two days before the launch having fractured her ankle during training.

She recently gave a heartbreaking insight into the aftermath of her departure from Strictly .

After bosses announced she was being replaced by fellow Love Island alum and West End star Amber Davies , Dani admited she has been ‘mentally tested’.

Dani spoke to her famous father Danny on their Live And Let Dyers podcast and revealed she refused to leave the house as she did not want to break down.

She recalled the exact moment she found out her journey could not go on – after she believed she could carry on: ‘We went and got a second opinion, I went and saw the doctor and I was like “What can we do?”

Revealing that she had a miscarriage before having Santi, she shared: 'Just before Santi, I got pregnant, and then that didn't work out. Because it didn't work out, I wanted a baby, so I wasn't careful'

Revealing that she had a miscarriage before having Santi, she shared: ‘Just before Santi, I got pregnant, and then that didn’t work out. Because it didn’t work out, I wanted a baby, so I wasn’t careful’

Dani opened up about the miscarriage to Jamie Laing on his Great Company podcast

Dani opened up about the miscarriage to Jamie Laing on his Great Company podcast

‘I went for the MRI and on the Tuesday I was getting ready to go to training, I was like I’ve got my ice machine, I’m just going to keep icing it, we’ll get through this…

‘And then she rung me in, Leanne, and she was like “Dani, I’m really sorry, you can’t compete you’ve got a fracture” and I was like what?’

Danny then revealed that there was talk of him being her substitute, to which she said: ‘Honestly dad it’s been so heartbreaking, I think I needed to grieve it.

She said: ‘That’s why I couldn’t leave the house because I knew if someone said to me ‘Are you ok Dani?’ I would just cry’.

Dani was paired with Nikita Kuzmin on the show and revealed his heartbreaking response to the news, saying: ‘Nikita didn’t speak for two minutes when she called him to tell him she had been told to drop out. For me mentally it has just been really testing’.

She admitted her heartbreaking fears over why she suffered the accident, revealing she spoke to a therapist because she thought she was a bad person which culminated in her having the accident.

On last weekend’s debut show, she said: ‘It was really hard watching the launch show… It’s been so heartbreaking and I think I needed to grieve it, but like you said I need to get my big girl knickers on’.

The Daily Mail broke the news that Dani of the departure, which she later confirmed in a statement reading: ‘I had a fall on Friday in rehearsals and landed funny.

It comes after Dani had to withdraw from the BBC show just two days before the launch having fractured her ankle during training

It comes after Dani had to withdraw from the BBC show just two days before the launch having fractured her ankle during training

‘I thought I had rolled my foot but it swelled up badly over the weekend and after an MRI scan yesterday, it turns out I have fractured my ankle.

‘Apparently doing the quickstep on a fracture is not advisable (!!) and the doctors have said I am not allowed to dance so l’ve had to pull out of the show.

‘To say I’m heartbroken is the biggest understatement. I am so going to miss dancing with Nikita but will of course be watching closely and cheering all the couples on.’

The accident occurred before Dani even got to perform one routine.

Bosses had hoped that Dani would go far in the competition, but it was announced last Tuesday that she could not continue in the competition.    

If you have been affected by this story, you can seek advice at www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk or by calling 01924 200 799

For confidential support, call the Samaritans on 116123 or visit a local Samaritans branch. See www.samaritans.org for details

What causes a miscarriage?

It is highly unlikely that you will ever know the actual cause of a one-off miscarriage, but most are due to the following problems:

ABNORMAL FETUS

The most common cause of miscarriages in the first couple of months is a one-off abnormal development in the fetus, often due to chromosome anomalies. ‘It’s not as though the baby is fine one minute and suddenly dies the next,’ says Professor James Walker, Professor of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at the University of Leeds. 

‘These pregnancies fail from the outset and were never destined to succeed.’ Most miscarriages like this happen by eight weeks, although bleeding may not start until three or four weeks later, which is worth remembering in subsequent pregnancies. ‘If a scan at eight weeks shows a healthy heart beat, you have a 95 per cent chance of a successful pregnancy,’ says Professor Walker.

HORMONAL FACTORS

A hormonal blip could cause a sporadic miscarriage and never be a problem again. However, a small number of women who have long cycles and irregular periods may suffer recurrent miscarriages because the lining of the uterus is too thin, making implantation difficult. 

Unfortunately, hormone treatment is not terribly successful. 

‘There used to be a trend for progesterone treatment, but trials show this really doesn’t work,’ warns Professor Walker. ‘There is some evidence that injections of HCG (human chorionic gonadotrophin, a hormone released in early pregnancy) can help, but it’s not the answer for everyone.’ The treatment must be started as soon as the pregnancy is confirmed, at around four or five weeks.

AGE 

For women over 40, one in four women who become pregnant will miscarry. [One in four women of all ages miscarry, but these figures include women who don’t know that they are pregnant. Of women who do know that they’re pregnant, the figure is one in six. Once you’re over 40, and know that you’re pregnant, the figure rises to one in four]

AUTO-IMMUNE BLOOD DISORDERS

Around 20 per cent of recurrent miscarriers suffer from lupus or a similar auto-immune disorder that causes blood clots to form in the developing placenta. 

A simple blood test, which may need to be repeated several times, can reveal whether or not this is the problem.’One negative test does not mean that a women is okay,’ warns Mr Roy Farquharson, consultant gynaecologist who runs an early pregnancy unit at the Liverpool Women’s Hospital. 

Often pregnancy can be a trigger for these disorders, so a test should be done as soon as possible,’ he adds.But it can easily be treated with low dose aspirin or heparin injections, which help to thin the blood and prevent blood clots forming – a recent trial also showed that women do equally well on either. ”We have a 70 per cent live birth rate in women treated for these disorders,’ says Dr Farquharson, ‘which is excellent.’

OTHER CAUSES

While uterine abnormalities, such as fibroids, can cause a miscarriage, many women have no problems carrying a pregnancy to term. An incompetent cervix can also cause miscarriage at around 20 weeks. 

While this can be treated by a special stitch in the cervix, trials suggest it is not particularly successful, although it may delay labour by a few weeks.Gene and chromosomal abnormalities, which can be detected by blood tests, may also cause recurrent miscarriages in a small number of couples. 

A procedure known as preimplantation genetic diagnosis can help. After in-vitro fertilisation (IVF), a single cell is taken from the developing embryo and tested for the gene defect. Only healthy embryos are then replaced in the womb.

 It is an expensive and stressful procedure – and pregnancy rates tend to be quite low – but for some this is preferable to repeated miscarriages or a genetically abnormal baby.

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